Thursday, June 3, 2010

CAKAP TAK SERUPA BIKIN

Hehehe baru semalam kata tak taw bila nak ngarut2 lagi kat blog ni kan. Tetiba hari ni aku da menaip lg kat sini muahahahahaaaa. Nak wat camne. Tetiba teringat sesuatu ;)). Korg ingat tak ada satu entry aku hangen dgn satu student ni? Haaa budak yg 'gila' pi propose aku tu la. Aku tak layan dah lepas YM dia tu. Mula aku ingat dia senyap je, skali dia YM lg laaaa. Tanya khabar kononnya, tp aku tak balas. Then tak lama lepas tu dia sms plak, tnya "how are u and ur work". Aku wat derk gak, n tak balas. Tup2 dia bg email lah plak muahahahahaa. Aku terima dah lama dah email tu. 27 May lepas. Tp sbb time tu takde mood sgt nak bebel2 kat sini so aku diamkan aju la email tu. Baca pun tak sbb da tgk nama pengirim tu dia kan, jd nak baca pun takde keinginan hehe. Pagi ni aku cek lg email cam biasa la, tetiba terpandang email dia yg aku tak baca lg tu hehe. Tajuk mmg mabeles :)). Ye la kan, org bijak pandai, mesti bg tajuk best2. So aku pun explore la email tu. Korg nak taw apa kandungan email dia :>. Meh aku paste sini eh hehe. Leh share sama korg sbb email tu bagus tul kandungannya hehe...

TITLE: THE LOVE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH

(The Love for the Sake of Allah) in the Sayings of the Prophet (saws)-
*(The most firm bonds of belief are: Supporting others for the sake of Allah, showing enmity for the sake of Allah, loving for the sake of Allah, hating for the sake of Allah the Almighty) (Sahih Aj Jame' 2539).

Love for the sake of Allah means loving others just in the way and for the cause of Allah the Almighty, not for other objectives, just like the following verse of the Holy Quran {And those who strive in Our (cause),- We will certainly guide them to our Paths} Al-Ankabout 69. i.e. they strive in the way, for the cause and for the sake of Allah alone.

*(You can taste the sweet flavor of belief if you apply three things: Loving Allah and his Prophet more than others, lovinf others just for the sake of Allah, and hating returning back to disbelief as much as you hate falling in the fire), narrated by Al-Bukhari 6941.

Al-Qadhi said: Love is a tendency toward something for certain perfection therein; therefore, if the believer acknowledged that the real perfection is just for Allah, and that any perfection observed by him in himself or in others is just a grant from Allah, his love will be sincere for the sake, in the cause, and in the way of Allah, and this entails the full obedience to Allah the Almighty; accordingly, love is construed as a wish for compliance which entails the following the Prophet peace be upon him.

*(Allah will overshadow seven kinds of persons at the Day of Judgement, wherein there is no shadow except His... two persons loved each other for the sake of Allah, met and separated under such love...), narrated by Al-Bukhari 1423, and Muslim.

Islam is the religion of love for the sake of Allah, and hate for the sake of Allah; because the heart is always attached to a beloved, and if Allah The Almighty Alone was not his beloved and worshiped, the heart will be attached to others i.e. polytheism; therefore, love for the sake of Allah is the religion itself. The best example for this is the wife of Al-Aziz (The Ruler's wife), when she was polytheist, she done her known action (i.e. seduced Yusuf) although she was married, while Yusuf was loyal and faithful in his love to Allah The Almighty; therefore, he escaped such seduction though he was young single slave man. Allah the Almighty said: {If you do love Allah, Follow me: Allah will love you and forgive your sins} Al-Imran:31

*(If you like to taste the sweet flavor of belief, love others for nothing but just for the sake of Allah) (good narration series) Sahih Aj Jame' 5958.

It is mentioned in Al-Kashaf Book that: Love for the sake of Allah and hate for the sake of Allah are one of the most important principles of belief. Love for the sake of Allah entails loving His prophets and faithful believers which is conditional on following them and obeying their instructions.

*(If you would like to find the sweet flavor of belief, love others just for the sake of Allah), narrated by Ahmad (good narration series), Sahih Aj Jame' 6288

One of the best deeds is to love others just for their belief in Allah, not for sake of getting their help or other benefits, and to hate others just for their diabelief and disobedience to Allah, not for the sake of harming them i.e. to treat people just in the cause of Allah. The hate in cause of Allah entails hating enemies od the religion, contradicting their way, obliging ourselves to obey the orders of Allah and avoiding the prohibitions. As for the enemies of Allah, we should be more patient than them and remain stationed always.

*(The perfect believer is the one who loves for the sake of Allah, hati for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah and hold for the sake of Allah), narrated by Abu Dawood (Sahih Aj Jame' 5965). i.e. Loving others for the sake of Allah alone not for any tendencies or self desires toward them, hating others in the cause of Allah alone, for their disbelief or disobedience but not for harming them. Ibn Mo'ath said: the sign for knowing the true love in the cause of Allah is to show no increase in kindness or decrease in unkindness.

*(One day, a man went to visit his friend in some village. In the way, Allah has sent him an angel. The angel asked him: Where are you going? The man answered: I am going to visit a brother in this village. The angel asked: Do you want any interest or benefit from him? He answered: No, I just love him for the sake of Allah. The angel said: I am the messenger of Allah to you, Allah loved you as you loved your brother), narrated by Muslim 2576.

It is narrated that Ibn Omar (May Allah be pleased with him) said: You will not have the protection of Allah and you not tastet the sweet flavor of belief unless you be like this.

*(If you love a man for the sake of Allah, it is better to tell him so that love and friendly feelings will last more) (good narration series), Sahih Aj Jame', 280

I.e. if you love a person for the sake of Allah - not for worldly benefits - then tell that person that you love him in the cause of Allah, because by this the friendly feelings and love will last and multiply, the Muslims will be united, the corruption will be eliminated and the rancor will go away. In another prophetic narration, it is mentioned that if someone told you I love you for the sake of Allah you should say: May Allah love you as you loved me.

*(If you love a person for the sake of Allah, then pay him a visit to tell him that you love him for the sake of Allah), narrated by Ahmad (Sahih Aj Jame', 281)

By informing your brother that you love him for the sake of Allah you will gain his love and respect, and he will be ready to accept your advice and will disregards your defects; accordingly, the blessings will prevail.

*(If any of you loved his brother for the sake of Allah, then it is better to tell his brother so that he can feel the same), As-Silsela As-Sahiha, Al-Albani 1/947.

*(Allah loves who loves Al-Ansar - i.e. the people of Medina who has supported the Prhophet - and hates who hates them).

*(The one who loves Al-Ansar - the people of Medina who supported the Prhophet - is a true believer, and the one who hates them is a hyprocrite. Allah loves who loves them and hates who hates them), narrated by At-Termithi (Sahih Aj Jame' 7629).

*(By Allah the Almighty, the one who truly love Al-Ansar and dies bearing such love, Allah will meeti him with love, and the one who hates Al-Ansar and dies bearing such hate, Allah will meet him with hate), narrated by Ahmad (good narration series), Sahih Aj Jame' 1979.

HE TALKED ABOUT LOVE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH. TP DIA SNDRI TAK MO PRAKTIK APA YG DIA DUK TULIS OR CKP. KALAU DIA BETUL2 SYANG HANYA KERANA ALLAH, KENAPA DIA NAK DUMP HIS WIFE LEPAS DPT TAW WIFE DIA TU SAKIT N TAKLEH MELAHIRKAN ANAK (according to him la nih)?. DIA LUPA KUT RASULULLAH DULU MASA HAYATNYA SITI KHADIJAH MASIH ADA, BAGINDA TAK KAWEN DGN SAPA2 PUN SELAIN KHADIJAH. LEPAS SITI KHADIJAH WAFAT BARU LA BAGINDA KAWEN DGN SITI AISHAH DAN LAIN2 TU... ITU PUN ATAS PERINTAH ALLAH. MASA HAYATNYA SITI KHADIJAH TU MASIH ADA, TGK LA BETAPA SYGNYA NABI S.A.W. PADA SITI KHADIJAH. LEPAS DIA WAFAT PUN BAGINDA MASIH TUNJUKKAN LAGI KASIH SYG BAGINDA PADA KHADJIAH.

DONT TALK ABOUT THE THINGS YG KO NAK IKUT SEPARUH2 JE NIH. BARU TUHAN BAGI DUGAAN ISTERI SAKIT N TAK BOLEH BERANAK KO DA NAK BUANG DIA N CARI WIFE LAIN. BETUL KE TU? SEPATUTNYA KO BG ISTERI KO TU SOKONGAN, BG SEMANGAT PADA DIA UTK TERUS HIDUP N TERIMA DUGAAN ALLAH NI DGN HATI YG REDHA. ITU LA PERANAN KO SBGI SORG SUAMI. BUKAN KE SEPATUTNYA KO SAYANG ISTERI KO TU FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH TANPA MENGHARAP APA2 BENEFIT DR KASIH SAYANG TU? ITU YG KO TULIS KAT EMAIL KO KAN? TINDAKAN KO BUANG DIA N CR WIFE LAIN NI KO RASA SBB KASIH SYG FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH KE? MMG SBGI ISTERI DIA BOLEH KATA DIA 'REDHA'. TAPI REDHA KE DIA? JANGAN PENTING KAN DIRI SNDRI. OR AYAT 'REDHA' TU KO SNDRI YG REKA2? ATAU SEBENARNYA ISTERI KO KAT NEGARA KO SANA TU GH TERNANTI2 KEPULANGAN KO? DIA PUN TAK TAW PASAL SAKIT N HAL2 TAK BOLE BERANAK TU? HUH!!!

I DID TELL MY MOM ABOUT THIS GUY TAW. MAK AKU SURUH CKP CAMNI KAT MAMAT TU "KO KATA WIFE KO SAKIT N TAK LEH BERANAK KAN? KO AGAK2 AKU NI SIHAT KE? BOLEH BERANAK KE?" MUAHAHAHAHAHA BEST TAK MAK AKU :)) =)). DAH LA INCIK 'MAMAT', SY TAK BERMINAT. BUAT MASA NI (masa depan aku tak taw la) TIADA CINTA UTK LELAKI DIHATI INI (dlm erti kata yg lain, aku belum terpikir nak kawen buat masa skrg ni). PERGI LA BALIK SEMULA KE NEGARA KO, HIDUP DGN WIFE KO TU, BANGUN KAN NEGARA KO TU. OR KALAU KO DESPERATE SGT NAK KAWEN DGN ORG MALAYSIA, KO GI LA CR ORG LAIN YA, AKU RASA RAMAI JE YG NAK KEKEKE. AKU TAK MINAT. DAN JGN SAMPAI AKU BG AYAT YG BERTAHAP KURANG AJO KAT KO. SELAGI AKU LEH CONTROL NI, SILA JGN GANGGU AKU LG!!!

Bagi peringatan kat sini mcm la mamat tu baca kihkihkih. Takpe la janji aku puas ati. Aku mmg tak kan balas dah email2 or ym or sms dia. Based on my observation, aku rasa mamat ni cuma nak cari alasan yg paling selamat utk terus tinggal kat Malaysia. Tu sbb dia beriya2 nak kawen dgn org Malaysia, dan nak kawen tu plak dlm masa terdekat, begitu tergesa2 sbb dia bakal abis study bulan JUNE a.k.a bulan ni la muahahahhaa. LELAKI SERUPA ITU, PADA AKU, MMG TAK LEH 'PAKAI'. LELAKI PENTINGKAN DIRI SNDRI. SELFISH!!!

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